INFJ Confession 302) I like laying down all the options and possibilities before committing to anything or making a decision.
April 2012
INFJ Confession 301) At night, my mind is always running. Sometimes, I tell myself to relax so that I could sleep, but even then, it doesn't just stop. I wish I could fall asleep on command.
INFJ Confession 300) I'm very sentimental. I tend to keep gifts or objects that mean something to me, whether it'd be a note someone wrote to me, or something that might seem really small to others. It can be difficult to part with them.
INFJ Confession 299) I keep a diary/journal.
March 2012
INFJ Confession 298) I often find myself agreeing with the points people make, even though I don't feel entirely the same way.
INFJ Confession 297) I often wonder if this is all real, as if I'm stuck in some alternate reality and I haven't "woken up."
INFJ Confession 296) Last week my step-dad told me that I "over-express" and that while I am "very wise for [my] age, [I] don't know everything." This bothers me because I KNOW I don't know everything... but there I go again; knowing. :P
INFJ Confession 295) Whenever I see someone saying anything particularly hateful, racist, or ignorant concerning others (usually on the internet), it makes me physically nauseous, sad, and confused. How are there people out there that still think this type of behavior is okay? Why can't they see the bigger picture??
INFJ Confession 294) Awesome at neglecting work that means nothing. And awesome at finding meaning in the work that you enjoy doing.
INFJ Confession 293) INFJs are supposed to be opposed to casual sex, but I've tried it. Normally, getting to know people well enough to call them my friend, let alone "significant other," takes fforrevverr. So it's especially fascinating to see a bunch of different new people and their behavior getting swept up in such private moments... As interesting and empowering as it was, the phase was a numbingly solitary adventure, so I stopped.
INFJ Confession 292) I'm allergic to my dog's hair but I can't bring myself to make her leave my room when she comes in and snuggles up with me. I would rather have hayfever all night than make her feel unwanted.
INFJ Confession 291) Personify everything.
INFJ Confession 290) It's fun to see what people project onto you, when you're so quiet... as long as they believe you when you when you choose to talk.
INFJ Confession 288) I am completely unaware of my surroundings sometimes. All hell could be breaking loose around me, but I don't notice a thing unless it's really disruptive.
INFJ Confession 287) I try to justify doing things by thinking, "well, other people can do this, so can I," but it never seems to work, and if I actually carry out what I'm trying to do and if it goes against my nature, then I feel really weird and get uncomfortable in my own skin.
INFJ Confession 286) Simultaneously hating and loving people.
INFJ Confession 285) I think we make up for the selflessness with self-obsession. But really, if we didn't think we are awesome, we would probably die. Plus, we feel guilty and ashamed of thinking that way soon enough, so I'd say it's harmless.
INFJ Confession 284) Every person I have loved who has left me, did so while calling me amazing. Every person who encouraged these people to leave me, called me amazing. The groups of people I thought were my friends and only excluded me in the end, talked about how amazing I was while ignoring me. Isn't that meant to be a good thing? Why didn't you stick around then? Why is 'amazing', 'not worth the trouble'? I'm not amazing, I'm only overwhelming.
INFJ's fantasy land
I’m so sensitive it is actually unbelievable…Not being around people solves that problem but that’s not really living is it? Also my idealist ways of looking at possible relationships is so damaging. If i believe a person has some hidden, mysterious beauty, in seconds i’ll jump into fantasising about our future. I usually am too shy to even find out if they even are what i assumed them to be and then find myself gripping onto this idea of them for years. Just before, i actually got up the courage to talk to a boy i thought was really special and the harsh reality of who he actually was brought me straight back down to the harsh reality that is life.
-Claire Lee
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INFJ Confession 283) Sometimes I feel like my thoughts are so convoluted that I can barely even fully grasp them let alone try to articulate them and explain to other people.