INFJ Confession 2025) I've figured out why I haven't ever had a boyfriend. I'm an introverted feminist. Most guys are terrified of me, and if any guys DO like me, they're probably introverted too, so neither of us will make the first move. I'm not saying this is a bad thing; it will probably save me a lot of heartbreak as a teenager. However, I can't shake this feeling that I'll be alone forever. I can't even be an old cat-lady; I'm allergic to them. -_-
September 2012
INFJ Confession 2024) I have this irrational fear of authority. I'm not a rule-breaker though, but I worry about everything. When people go through a list of rules (and consequences), when I see police, when I see our school principal walking by.. and I don't understand it. I've nothing to be scared of. I just want to know how NOT to do this. It's very bothersome. And worrisome.
August 2012
INFJ Confession 2023) Today went horribly. One friend ditched on something she said she would do, then another, he just dismissed me entirely. These are the two people whom I thought were my closest friends. To add to this, two of my near-enemies have been better friends today than anyone. I got home and saw a message online from the first 'friend;' maybe to check on me to see how I was? She just wanted something from me. Honestly, I'm not as mad at the two of them as I am at myself for thinking they were different.
INFJ Confession 2022) So much goes on inside my head, it feels like a completely separate world.
INFJ Confession 2021) This sounds ridiculous for a 22-year-old, but I am and have always been an old soul. And this sounds incredibly ridiculous and conceited, but I feel "wiser" than most other people. It all strikes me as being so stupid to think/feel this way though. The silver lining? I'll likely make an awesome grandparent :)
To the person who said s/he felt self-conscious while exercising: well, I have the opposite problem. I am naturally very skinny and I feel like I always get judging stares when I'm at the gym (actually trying to gain muscle). For one reason or another, it's hard not to care about what people think, especially as INFJs. But sometimes other people have the same struggles. I constantly feel judged, too.
:) xxx
INFJs with AD(H)D
I’m looking to see if there are others out there. I’m also looking to see the spread of personality types of people with AD(H)D.
INFJ Confession 2020) I love to problem solve, but I give up way too easily.
INFJ Confession 2019) You are the first person I've met who is like me and whom I am also attracted to and who is also single at the same time. We've spent some time together, and I'm pretty sure you feel the same way, but I am too shy to say anything and if you're like me, you are too. Plus, the whole thing is fraught due to circumstance. But I don't want to miss the chance for something great. I wanted to invite you over this afternoon to listen to records and drink beer. But I didn't. #proceedingwithcauthion
INFJ Confession 2018) Friendships are give and take. But that doesn't mean I'm going to have a meltdown if we talk about you more than we talk about me. Taking about me makes me feel conceited if I do it too much.
INFJ Confession 2017) My mother thinks I'm crazy for caring about other people so much. While they don't always ask how my day was, or love everything I do, I still know they genuinely care. They just need to know and hear that I care more than I need to hear that from them.
INFJ Confession 2016) I want to start running in a nearby park... but I get really self-conscious and shy and I can't run, or do any type of exercise, I'm overweight and I feel like everyone (fit and skinny) is watching and judging me
INFJ Confession 2015) Please don't fall in love with me, please.
INFJ Confession 2014) I've been confessed to by a few different guys recently. I'm happy with my current boyfriend, but there's still something that bothers me: these guys have ended up dating or liking someone else mere weeks after confessing. If it were me, I wouldn't be able to let go of someone that quickly. It just makes me feel like they don't actually care at all. And then I think that I'm the only one who thinks like that at all...I think I get too attached to people.
INFJ Confession 2013) Because of our high iNtuition, INFJs will one day rule the world.
INFJ Confession 2012) I love caring for someone. I can do anything for someone that I cherish (inculding friends) that often leads them to think that i'm in love with someone I care for (which i'm not.) I just love to see someone precious to me is happy. I wonder if this is infj's things
INFJ Confession 2011) My mind is my sanctuary, my reality, my home.
